First and greatest commandment

Love One Another and Worry about you When Heavenly Father gives me a commandment, it is up to me to follow it. I want to give others the opportunity to learn about the commandment and follow it for themselves. First and greatest commandment I need to follow is to love one another. If that is my guiding principle then everything else will follow. I recently felt very judged by people I thought were my friends. What I realized was that all of us have a check list in our heads and if we follow that checklist we are saved and will be fine but what we forget is that first guiding principle "Love one Another" and second "Love your neighbor as thyself".Everything including our checklist falls after these two commandments. I was very hurt when this event transpired but now I have to practice what I preach and just love my friends and treat them like what I want to be treated.